Narrative:

It was night. Raining with fog. Clouds at 500 ft. I was on a VOR runway 9R oak. I thought to have seen runway and its light, but actually realized it was lights from runway 11, the other runway and I probably got very close to it. I went missed approach and contacted oak tower 118.3 of my intention. I was vectored again to VOR runway 9R for another attempt. Just before me was another aircraft on the same approach. The proceeding aircraft landed successfully while I was back to tower (118.3) and cleared for the VOR runway 9R. Tower asked to the proceeding aircraft which was on the ground, 'would it help if I turned on the lights?' the aircraft said yes definitely. With the WX condition, I believe it was unsafe to have parallel lights on high intensity while runway 9R was off, or low intensity. This is why I was confused on my first attempt.

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Original NASA ASRS Text

Title: A PART 135 PLT, ON A VOR APCH TO RWY 9R AT OAK, SAW THE RWY LIGHTS FOR RWY 11 AND HEADED IN THAT DIRECTION. REALIZING THE MISTAKE, HE EXECUTED A MISSED APCH.

Narrative: IT WAS NIGHT. RAINING WITH FOG. CLOUDS AT 500 FT. I WAS ON A VOR RWY 9R OAK. I THOUGHT TO HAVE SEEN RWY AND ITS LIGHT, BUT ACTUALLY REALIZED IT WAS LIGHTS FROM RWY 11, THE OTHER RWY AND I PROBABLY GOT VERY CLOSE TO IT. I WENT MISSED APCH AND CONTACTED OAK TWR 118.3 OF MY INTENTION. I WAS VECTORED AGAIN TO VOR RWY 9R FOR ANOTHER ATTEMPT. JUST BEFORE ME WAS ANOTHER ACFT ON THE SAME APCH. THE PROCEEDING ACFT LANDED SUCCESSFULLY WHILE I WAS BACK TO TWR (118.3) AND CLRED FOR THE VOR RWY 9R. TWR ASKED TO THE PROCEEDING ACFT WHICH WAS ON THE GND, 'WOULD IT HELP IF I TURNED ON THE LIGHTS?' THE ACFT SAID YES DEFINITELY. WITH THE WX CONDITION, I BELIEVE IT WAS UNSAFE TO HAVE PARALLEL LIGHTS ON HIGH INTENSITY WHILE RWY 9R WAS OFF, OR LOW INTENSITY. THIS IS WHY I WAS CONFUSED ON MY FIRST ATTEMPT.

Data retrieved from NASA's ASRS site as of July 2007 and automatically converted to unabbreviated mixed upper/lowercase text. This report is for informational purposes with no guarantee of accuracy. See NASA's ASRS site for official report.