Narrative:

Flight fra-dtw 7/wed/91. At the conclusion of aircraft boarding, all seats were full. Captain's wife was unable to get a seat aboard aircraft. Captain asked if anyone objected to his wife sitting in cockpit so she could get home. As an instructor pilot I had authority and could have prevented this incident. With many other things on my mind (departure was soon to begin) and not wanting to be the 'bad guy' I did not object. At the time I knew it was against company policy but I did not think of it as breaking a far. The thought of having a 'bad guy image' because you abide by the rules is wrong. It has bothered me that I felt the way I did and did not insist on following procedure. This has taught me not to worry about image when someone else wants to break the rules.

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Original NASA ASRS Text

Title: ACR CKP ALLOWED CAPT'S WIFE TO RIDE IN THE COCKPIT FROM FRA BECAUSE THE CABIN WAS FULL.

Narrative: FLT FRA-DTW 7/WED/91. AT THE CONCLUSION OF ACFT BOARDING, ALL SEATS WERE FULL. CAPT'S WIFE WAS UNABLE TO GET A SEAT ABOARD ACFT. CAPT ASKED IF ANYONE OBJECTED TO HIS WIFE SITTING IN COCKPIT SO SHE COULD GET HOME. AS AN INSTRUCTOR PLT I HAD AUTHORITY AND COULD HAVE PREVENTED THIS INCIDENT. WITH MANY OTHER THINGS ON MY MIND (DEP WAS SOON TO BEGIN) AND NOT WANTING TO BE THE 'BAD GUY' I DID NOT OBJECT. AT THE TIME I KNEW IT WAS AGAINST COMPANY POLICY BUT I DID NOT THINK OF IT AS BREAKING A FAR. THE THOUGHT OF HAVING A 'BAD GUY IMAGE' BECAUSE YOU ABIDE BY THE RULES IS WRONG. IT HAS BOTHERED ME THAT I FELT THE WAY I DID AND DID NOT INSIST ON FOLLOWING PROC. THIS HAS TAUGHT ME NOT TO WORRY ABOUT IMAGE WHEN SOMEONE ELSE WANTS TO BREAK THE RULES.

Data retrieved from NASA's ASRS site as of July 2007 and automatically converted to unabbreviated mixed upper/lowercase text. This report is for informational purposes with no guarantee of accuracy. See NASA's ASRS site for official report.